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What is Weight Neutral Care?

Have you ever heard the phrase “weight neutral care”?

 

To be honest, at first when I heard this phrase many years ago, I didn’t know what it meant. So, I dove deep to learn more about it.

 

Weight neutral care “supports the enhancement of physical and mental health for people of all sizes without the intention of weight change”. (haesaustralia.org)

 

In simple terms, weight neutral care takes the emphasis off weight loss and instead provides evidenced-based interventions to promote health.

 

Research shows that weight is not a reliable predictor of health. Your health is multifaceted and cannot be inferred simply from weight or a number on the scale.

 

In health care, focusing on weight (known as weight centered care) promotes more harm than good. It causes weight stigma, disordered eating, weight cycling and more.

Imagine going to the doctor for a sore throat and leaving with a prescription for weight loss. This happens all the time. How soon do you think you’re going to want to go back to this doctor? So you delay caring for your health, because you want to protect yourself from fat shaming in the doctor’s office.

 

In this weight centered approach to healthcare, the doctors, nurses and other medical professionals focus on weight loss as the be all end all of managing disease.

 

This approach sends 2 FALSE messages to the patient:

Message #1: Weight loss is a behavior that you can just do (FALSE!)

Message #2: Weight loss is the cure for disease (FALSE!)

 

Instead what this message causes is disordered eating, weight cycling and creates a stigma around weight and body.

Weight loss is not a behavior, it is an outcome of habit and behavior change.

You have a lot less control over what you weigh than what society and the current culture has led you to believe.

 

Factors that influence weight

There are many factors that go into your weight or body composition—genetics, environmental influences, age, hormones, sex, medical conditions, socioeconomic status, medications, and so much more!

Shifting the focus away from weight loss and instead bringing into focus behaviors and habits one can change (like food choices, regular movement, stress management) is the main focus of weight neutral care, and the approach I recommend people to take when wanting to improve one’s health.

 

Weight Neutral Care is Not Anti-Weight Loss

 

This is a very important point. Those who advocate for weight neutral care are not against potential weight loss that can happen when you change your habits and behaviors. It simply removes the pressure and views weight loss as a possible “outcome” rather than a “behavior” or “skill” that you can do.

 

Habits and Behaviors that Can Improve Health

 

  1. Listen to your body: I know, this is easier said than done with all the noise out in diet culture. Consider seeking support and surround yourself with others that are on the same journey. (Click here for a free online community of support).

 

  1. Engage in gentle movement that is enjoyable and kind to your body. There’s no extra health benefit to beating yourself up in the gym. Find something that energizes you, not something that depletes you.

 

  1. Become aware: Tap in to how eating certain foods, or amounts of foods, feels in your body. Allow this information to inform future eating decisions.

 

 

  1. Practice mindful living! Not just mindful eating (but yes, of course this is important too), but mindfully move through all aspects of your day from the moment you wake up until you go to sleep.

 

  1. Change the self-talk: Ahh, another one easier said than done. If you’ve been trying to lose weight and keep it off for a long time, then chances are the tape that plays in your head doesn’t sound so nice. It is imperative to work on changing the negative self-talk to positive self-talk!

 

Key takeaway: Focus on habits and behaviors to improve your health, rather than on weight loss. You will see how much better you feel.

 

 

5 Mindful Living Tips to Cultivate a Healthy Relationship with Food and Body

I’m really enjoying my focus of Mindful Living so far. I wrote about this intention for myself in last week’s blog…if you didn’t read it yet, click here.

I am making a concerted effort to be present in everything I do. Last Saturday night, my husband and I went out with some friends. I told my husband that I planned to NOT look at my phone the entire night so I can be present with my friends. I invited him to do the same. We had a great time, engaging in the conversation and laughing…A LOT! Laughter is so good for the soul, let me tell you. It was great.

I gave some thought as to what other areas I can be more mindful and I am sharing them with you in today’s blog. You may find these helpful for yourself on your journey towards a healthier relationship with food and body.

5 Mindful Living Tips

Tip #1. Be Present While Prepping Your Meals

In truth, when I am cooking, I am often listening to a podcast, talking on the phone or daydreaming. Very rarely am I engaging with the actual food prep. I’ve decided to change that. I’m practicing being fully present while chopping the veggies for the salad and hearing their crispness, stir-frying the onions and peppers and listening to the sizzle, and taking in the wonderful aroma of the simmering chili. All this awareness has increased the satisfaction of my meals.

Tip #2. Get More Quality Sleep

I find that doctors don’t talk enough about sleep, but sleep is critical to well-being. While the general recommendation is to get 7 to 9 hours of sleep each night, each person is individual and some need more or less. Sufficient sleep allows your body to rest and repair and be more attentive and productive the next day.

I’ve had some trouble sleeping lately and it’s really affected my energy level. My husband surprised me and bought me a weighted blanket. I had never really heard of them, and when I did some research, I found that weighted blankets are useful for a number of conditions, including difficulty sleeping.
It took me some time to get used to it, but I have to say that it has helped my sleep. It’s not only quantity of sleep (in other words how many hours you get) that’s important, but it’s also quality of sleep. This weighted blanket is allowing me a deeper, more peaceful sleep. I’ll keep you updated as to how this progresses for me.

Tip #3. Find a Physical Activity You Enjoy

Moving your body in a way that feels good for you is very important. If you exercise because you think you “should”, chances are you’re not really loving it and you’re going to burn out. For me, I love exercise and moving my body. But I have found over the years that the type of exercise I enjoy has changed.

As part of my mindful living intention, I’ve been staying fully present during my workout sessions. When my mind wanders (which is does!), I gently bring it back to the present moment. What I’m finding is that by being fully present in this manner, I am more tuned in to how I feel during and after the exercise.

Just today when I finished my workout at the gym, I thought to myself, “I really don’t enjoy the treadmill and elliptical anymore”. I generally mix up my workouts during the week…sometimes I take a class at the gym, sometimes I walk/run on the treadmill/elliptical and sometimes I work out at home using my DVDs. I used to really enjoy my time on the treadmill/elliptical because it was a time that I can catch up on my TV shows that I don’t get a chance to watch. But today, I realized that I don’t enjoy that anymore. My body feels so much better after I take a class, be it kickboxing, dance, weight training etc. I love moving to the music and the comradery of the other ladies in the class.

My new mindfulness practice has made me aware of this, and I will be making a change in how I move my body.

What about you? What feels right in your body?

Top #4. Experiment with Meditation

As much as I talk about the benefits of meditation, I’ve had trouble getting into a consistent practice. My initial vision of meditation years ago was sitting on a cushion, feet crossed , thumb and pointer finger pinched together – you get the idea. But I’ve since learned that there is no one way to mediate. Do what feels right for you.

I’ve used some apps such as Calm and Headspace, but nothing regularly. So I will be experimenting with using these apps more consistently, likely before I get under my weighted blanket in the evening.

Do you have any tips for meditation? Let me know in the comments please!

Tip #5. Put an End to Negative Body Talk

When we talk to ourselves, we can be our own worst critic, do you agree? Most often, when we are being harsh with ourselves, we say things that we would never think of saying to a friend.

Why is that okay? It’s not!

In my experience working with my clients, this negative talk comes up mostly around body shape and size. Thinking of your body in a negative, shameful manner causes damage to your self-esteem. Your body’s job is to keep you alive, and it works hard to do so.

What if you tried to treat yourself and your body with pure compassion and kindness? Pay yourself a compliment each day about your amazing characteristics that others love about you.

In my quest to live more mindfully, if I try on an outfit and don’t like the way it looks, I will pay attention to the words I say. It’s not my body that is the problem. This dress, pants, or outfit is just not cut for my body. Period, end of story.

There you have it. Five mindful living tips to help you cultivate a healthy relationship with food and body in this new year. Which will you join me in? Comment below?

 

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My Decision to Live More Mindfully (and 8 Tips for Mindful Eating)

I’ve been giving thought to what I’d like to see for myself in the New Year.  As we kick off 2020, I’m feeling really good about the intention I set for myself for the coming year which is (drum roll please…) MINDFUL LIVING.

There’s a lot of buzz around mindfulness and as I’ve been teaching more and more about it to my intuitive eating clients, I realize that sometimes I run through my days without being as mindful as I’d like. So, I’ve made a commitment to myself to utilize the strategies that I teach my clients as part of my self-care plan.

Let’s Explore Mindfulness

Mindfulness is a Buddhist concept defined as “an awareness that arises through paying attention, on purpose, in the present moment, non-judgmentally.”

Mindful living, therefore, is paying full attention and being fully present to each and everything you do, from taking your morning shower, to sending your kids off to school, to driving to work and cooking dinner. There is so much to learn when you pay full attention to the tasks you take on every day.

Mindful Eating

When applied to food or nutrition, mindful eating is “using mindfulness to reach a state of full attention to your experiences, cravings, and physical cues when eating.”

Mindful Eating Day is tomorrow, January 4th. It’s a great time to begin the practice of mindful eating to improve your eating experiences.

Learning to eat mindfully takes time, patience, and consistency. The more mindful you become, the more benefits you will experience. Some of the pros of mindful eating includes easier digestion, reduced stress or anxiety around food, and increased enjoyment of meals.

You can start to become a mindful eater by implementing a few of the following practices into your eating routine. Start small by eating one mindful meal a day. Once you settle into a rhythm, you can begin to eat all of your meals mindfully.

8 Tips for Practicing Mindful Eating

1. Eat slowly and intentionally
2. Avoid distractions while eating (i.e. cell phones, television, computer, etc.)
3. Take small bites and chew your food thoroughly

4. Pay attention to and listen for your body’s hunger cues
5. Eat to the point of comfortable fullness
6. Notice the tastes, textures, smells, and flavors of the food you eat
7. Pay attention to how food makes you feel before, during and after a meal
8. Appreciate the food that you are eating

Is Mindful Eating the Same as Intuitive Eating?

No, it’s not.

In my practice, I encourage my clients to practice mindful eating as part of their journey to becoming an intuitive eater.

It should be noted that while intuitive eating shares certain values with mindful eating, they are different concepts. Mindful eating is about being present at the table in a non-judgmental way. Intuitive eating is a self-care feeding model that helps reacquaint people with their inner body wisdom and discover what satisfaction and fullness feel like individually. The emphasis is on rejecting diet culture and honoring health and taste buds together through gentle nutrition.

It’s possible to engage in mindful eating and not be an intuitive eater, but intuitive eating isn’t really possible without some mindfulness.

Will You Join Me?

As I move into more mindful living this year, I’m excited to see what comes. Will you join me in this venture? Let me know!

Support is Available

If you need support to reclaim your birthright of being an intuitive and mindful eater, click here to schedule a complementary chat with me.

A Weight Goal is Not a Goal

Health goal vs number goalHaving goals is a wonderful way to keep making progress especially when working to achieve a healthy lifestyle.  Goals motivate you and give you specific things to strive for.  While goals should always be measurable and have an allotted amount of time in which they should be accomplished, having a “weight goal” should not be one of your goals.

Though you may see it as a check-point, by labeling a weight goal, you will end up making your journey to health solely about the number on the scale, something I have hopefully shown you is not what eating mindfully is all about.  There is nothing more crushing than to feel like you have been doing a great job following your new healthy lifestyle, but then “weighing in” only to see the number hasn’t gone down, or worse has gone up.

Putting so much stress on yourself to get to a certain number by a certain date may hinder your progress towards making healthy choices as opposed to helping it.  In an effort to achieve that number you might find yourself resorting to unhealthy, quick fix methods to achieve fast weight loss to reach that “goal weight,” but then find yourself back to where you started, not having learned the habits that will keep you healthy for life.

Now like I said, goals are a wonderful way to keep you moving in the right direction and feeling accomplished.

Here are some examples of healthy goals you can set for yourself:

  • I will aim to eat a combination of 5 fruit and vegetable servings every day for the month of July
  • I will pack my own lunch every day this week
  • I will exercise six out of seven days every week
  • I will only eat out four times this month
  • I will write in a journal when I feel like I am struggling with something in my life
  • I will take 15 minutes every day to do something for myself

These are all healthy goals that will keep you moving forward on your journey.  They’ll also help keep you away from watching the numbers and potentially falling back into unhealthy habits.

Your turn to take action: What healthy goal will you set for yourself today?