Add to these emotions the fact that you are surrounded by dieting messages at every turn. “New Year, New You” is a common theme as we end one year and begin planning for the next. This message is enmeshed in diet culture, sucking you into thinking there’s something wrong with the “current you”!
I’m here to tell you there is nothing wrong with you, just as you are now!
If you have achieved a peaceful relationship with food and your body, then you are in a place where these media messages are benign to you. They don’t affect you, except make you mad as hell that the diet industry is praying on those desperate to lose weight.
But thankfully, that is not you anymore. You appreciate your body, you are at peace with food, and you are enjoying the holiday meals without guilt. And I am so happy for you.
If you aren’t yet there yet, just know that I realize this next week may be challenging for you. If you will be surrounded by family members who are dieting, you will hear comments at your holiday meal such as:
“I shouldn’t be eating this, but…”
“I’m starting Diet X on January 1st…”
“I can’t eat that dessert, you are?”
How you handle these comments will determine whether you slip back into diet mentality or not.
Here are 3 Tips to Help You Navigate the Diet Talk at Your Holiday Meal:
- Maintain awareness: That word right there, awareness, will be the difference between you throwing in the towel or standing your ground. Stay present within your body and make purposeful food choices that honor you! If at any point you find yourself losing that awareness, that’s okay. Bring yourself back to the present moment with a pause and a few deep breaths.
- Tune out the diet talk: When the family starts getting into all the diet talk, just tune them out. Start to sing your favorite song in your head, think about the good time you had on your last vacation, or excuse yourself from the table for a stretch and walk around the house. You will be so thankful that you are no longer going down the rabbit hole of the ‘New Year Diet’!
- Change the topic: When the conversation goes to the food and should/shouldn’ts, change the topic! Be the leader in moving the conversation to where you want it to go. A good idea is to have some conversation starters ready to go such as:
- “What’s the most embarrassing thing that happened to you in the last 6 months?”
- “If you won the lottery, what would you do with the money?”
- “If you could have any superpower, what would it be?”
- “What’s your biggest pet peeve?”
You have the power within you to resist falling back into diet mentality. Keep reminding yourself of this, especially as December is coming to a close and a New Year is beginning!
And, give thought to how you want your intuitive eating journey to look in 2018.
If you are content in continuing to go it alone and are happy with your progress, then I am happy for you too!
But if any part of you would like a smoother transition into the world of intuitive eating, then reach out to me and let’s see how I can support you in the New Year. Just answer a few questions at www.TalkWithBonnie.com and we will set up a time to speak.
Best wishes for a Happy Holiday!