Pop Culture Permeates Body Image

Woman at ocean doing yogaIn 1959 Barbie burst onto the scene, meant to be a symbol for young girls to look up to and hope to be like.  However, throughout the years many mothers and advocates for woman’s issues complained about Barbie’s unrealistic proportions and the body image that it would represent to the impressionable young girls playing with her.  Now images of unrealistic body types are hard to escape in our country.  We are a nation obsessed with celebrity, and sometimes we forget that their lives are far from normal, and so are their body types.

I want to ask you a question.  Are you striving for the“perfect body?”  Are your looks what make you who you are?  I hope the answers to these questions are no.  However for a celebrity, their job and their responsibility to the public is to look good.  That means their days are designed to have hours to workout.  Their meals are delivered to their doorstep or handmade by a private chef.  Not to mention a little thing called airbrushing and spandex which are used to trick consumers when it comes to the magazines you see.  It is hardly fair to hold yourself to an image that is hardly realistic.

There is no person to whom you should be comparing yourself to.  Everyone is different and what works for one person may not work for another.  When it comes to body image, you are under no obligation look like anybody other than yourself, especially if it means putting yourself at health risk to do it.  You have to respect your body for what is and what it allows you to do.  Maybe your arms seem out of proportion, but those are the arms that are strong enough to lift your children with.  Or perhaps you would like your thighs to be smaller, but it’s those thighs that allow you to participate in your favorite sports or exercise activities.

There is always a positive to be found in the way you’re built.  The way you are built allows you to do the things that you do.  Try to internalize this thought; an improved self-image is the first step towards an improved body image.

Your turn to take action: Stand in front of the mirror with minimal clothing on.  Look at your reflection and ask yourself, “What one thing do I like about my body?”  If you can’t seem to find anything you like, then think about the way your body functions and all the good it’s done for you.  Please share your thoughts in the comment section below.

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  1. Evelyn Kalinosky
    Evelyn Kalinosky says:

    Bonnie, great post about how we put impossible standards on a woman’s body, her looks, how thin she is. None of which are at all important in the grand scheme of life. But, I know too well how devastating this kind of mindset can be having had an eating disorder from the time I was 15 until I was in my early 30s. I still struggle with body image distortion, but have learned as I age that true beauty cannot be defined by outward appearance, or by a culture that disavows a woman’s right to be who and what she is – both inside and out. Fortunately I didn’t pass this obsession along to my daughter. She is an adult now with two girls of her own and she has a wonderful body image and understanding of what true beauty is all about. She’s passing that legacy onto her girls and that makes me so hopeful.

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    • Bonnie R. Giller
      Bonnie R. Giller says:

      Evelyn, thanks for sharing. True beauty is on the inside, and it’s so important to get this message out to the young girls. Great job raising your daughter with a positive body image.

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  2. Ana
    Ana says:

    Of course I’d like to look like the girls in magazines, not the stick insects, but the ones with perfect proportions and great abs, but the older I get the more accepting I am of the real me with wobbly bits! I am still conscious of eating a healthy diet and exercise but these days it is mainly from the point of view of staying healthy rather than beauty.

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    • Bonnie R. Giller
      Bonnie R. Giller says:

      As we get older, our priorities do change. Rarely does a young female client tell me they want to lose weight for good health, but for the older clients, that’s usually the number one reason!

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  3. Kerry Ray
    Kerry Ray says:

    Self esteem, self confidence and self respect are all related. Self esteem is also defined as the judgments a person makes about themselves and is affected by self confidence and respect. Self confidence is believing in our ability to take action and meet our goals. Self respect is the degree to which we believe we deserve to be happy, have rewarding relationships and stand up for our rights and values. All these factors affect whether or not we will have a healthy body image.

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    • Bonnie R. Giller
      Bonnie R. Giller says:

      Thank you Kerry for the detailed comment. I agree, all three are inter-related and will affect having a healthy body image.

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